When it comes to the art of seduction and getting a woman sexually excited, Huffington Post sums up the whole conundrum perfectly: women try to avoid being seen as slutty or too forward while men, dogged by the fear of rejection, try to dim their domineering or intimidating selves.
The result? A bunch of sexually repressed women and a bunch of men destined to the “friend zone”.
To get a girl to sleep with you, you need to ignite a sexual spark and turn her on. It doesn’t matter how much she LIKES you; if you don’t TURN HER ON, it will be extremely difficult to get a woman to sleep with you.
Sexually Starved? Try This…
If you’re sexually starved, I know exactly what that feels like. I know how incredibly frustrating it is to always be the “friend” who gets to watch the woman you want run off to bed with some other guy. I understand how easy it is to feel rejected, miserable, and down on yourself when you don’t get frequent sex or when you aren’t sleeping with the woman you actually want.
If she seems interested but isn’t sleeping with you, it’s because you’re not turning her on. To turn things around quickly, use this Fantasy Ignition technique to ensure she gets turned on and thinks about you in a sexual way.
When you know how to turn a woman on, everything else goes out the window. Your age doesn’t matter. Your looks don’t matter. Your job, your money, and the size of your package don’t matter. Start getting her sexually excited and tuned into the idea of sleeping with you by using these under the radar sexual activators. I’ve had AMAZING success with them!
When a woman gets turned on, she becomes far less selective and turns her mind almost exclusively to the thought of getting you inside her – and she often becomes quite aggressive to get what she wants. At that point you won’t have to worry anymore about striking out, sleeping alone at night, or being depressed as hell because women aren’t jumping in your pants for sex.
Improve Your Chances Of Sleeping With Her
Let me leave you with one more tip. The likelihood of a woman sleeping with you is directly correlated to how much she thinks about you – in other words, how much of her “mind-share” you occupy.
The guy she thinks about the most is the guy she’s most likely to sleep with. You want to be THAT guy.
So how do you do it? One way is to send her psychologically addictive texts.
And you can stop stressing about exactly what to send because right here you can find 5 text messages that trigger psychological addiction. They’re currently available for no cost, so when you click that link, just scroll to the bottom, select Option 3, and let my buddy Christian know where to send them.
Lastly, here are 6 more things to help you get a woman so turned on she can’t wait to get under the covers with you!
When learning how to get a woman sexually excited, the importance of foreplay should not be overlooked. For men, it’s easy to get up and ready for sex just by looking at an attractive woman. The problem is, most men make the mistake of hurrying foreplay, assuming their woman is ready for sex just because they are.
Generally speaking, the core of foreplay should start as far away from the genitals as possible. Some erotic gestures you can try include cupping her face, rubbing and/or kissing her neck and shoulders, and staring into her eyes. Try to move slowly from her sexually neutral areas to more erogenous zones, instead of jumping straight into penetration.
2. Create The Right Ambiance
Women are much more sensitive than men to distractions such as loud music, bright lights, or even dirty bed sheets. At the basic level, creating sexual ambiance involves simple things like turning off the TV, changing the dirty bed sheets, and carefully choosing the music variety and volume on your home theater.
You could go further by lighting scented candles, playing love songs, or serving her favorite drink. Such efforts may seem desperate to some men, but these stimuli, both consciously and subconsciously, communicate to a woman that you care and make it much easier for her to get sexually excited around you.
3. Use Verbal Cues
While it’s true body language is one of the most significant and powerful aspects of seduction, what you say also goes a long way in communicating your interest and getting her to think about sex.
Stay away from topics that are too serious or boring and try to talk about things that get her aroused. Play it “too cute” or “too nice” and you’ll quickly end up in the friend zone because she won’t get that feeling of arousal or see you in a sexual way. If your interest in a woman is to get her to sleep with you, then you should learn to communicate with words and phrases that connect with her sexually.
4. Explore Her Fantasies
Like men, women have sexual fantasies. Lots of them. But they usually get repressed, because if a woman is too open about her sexual desires, society may label her as a slut, whore, or worse.
Instead of getting worked up over her fantasizing about Brad Pitt, use it to your advantage. Make her feel safe and encourage her to open up about her fantasies. Then, try to fulfill them for her. Role playing is one of the best ways to get a woman sexually excited, especially if you’ve been with her for a while and sex has gone stale.
5. Improve Your Kissing Technique
Remember, if you want to get a girl to sleep with you, focus on arousal and anticipation. For many women, kissing is a huge turn on, and it’s a great way to get her sexually excited…if you do it right. Bad kissing, on the other hand, is a huge turn-off.
It is no secret that women love kissing. But just because a girl lets you kiss her, doesn’t mean she’s ready to jump in bed with you. Too often, men trip up at this hurdle because they go about kissing the wrong way, and don’t take the time to get her extremely turned on and motivated for sex.
The secret to a great kiss is anticipation. Relax, go slow, and start out by simply brushing your lips against hers. Pause briefly and let her really experience what it feels like to have your lips pressed against hers. Let her anticipate what’s coming next.
Don’t lead with your tongue. Let that happen naturally. Always avoid drooling or sucking too heavily, and especially if it’s a first kiss.
Never ever EVER use the following two kisses if you want to turn her on and excite her sexually:
1. The Sword Fight Kiss – this is when a guy doesn’t use any lip and just rapidly flicks his tongue all around a woman’s mouth. Ewww!
2. The Shiv Kiss – this is when a guy leans in to kiss a woman with his tongue already part way out and he just kind of rams it into her lips or face. It often happens when a man is overly excited to see a woman. It’s a BIG turn off!
Lastly, bad breath is a big turnoff. If you suspect your breath stinks, brush your teeth regularly or chew on mint or lemon peel gum to chase away the smell.
6. Use Body Language To Build Sexual Tension
According to Psychology Today, body language is the most powerful tool when it comes to seduction, particularly for men. When seducing women, you need to communicate interest, confidence, and dominance.
Use these 7 ways to instantly turn on any woman. Even if you don’t feel particularly attractive, your body language can convince women you’re the hottest man on earth.